Lessons for Men & Boys It’s hard for me to let my work be what it needs to be, to just follow my curiosity without knowing exactly where it will lead. But it’s thanks to that trust in the process that Divine Fluidity found its way into Voice Male, one of the “OG” healthy masculinities magazines in the U.S., now run by Next Gen Men. I celebrate seeing queer beauty and wisdom centered in its pages, offering a gentle invitation for men to embrace the full spectrum of what it mea

A queer man’s reflection on fear, anger, and what becomes possible when men truly see one another with love. A few weeks ago, I boarded a plane and then drove three hours deep into the redwoods of Mendocino, CA to attend a men’s retreat. Not just any retreat, but one organized by Michael Meade (one of the fathers of the mythopoetic men's movement ) in a forest where men have been gathering for more than forty years. I wanted to be in the original space, the “OG” of men’s ret